Raising girls who know who they are
Identity. Confidence. Leadership.
The Heart of
You With Confidence
You With Confidence is a confidence-building movement for girls, helping them grow in identity, courage, kindness, and leadership — both online and through in-person Girl-School experiences. Raising girls who know who they are is vitally important to You With Confidence.
Choose Your
Journey
Every girl’s journey to confidence is unique. Whether she learns best from the comfort of home or thrives in a small group setting, we offer two powerful pathways designed to help her grow in identity, courage, and leadership — at her own pace and in her own way.
- Small group sessions
- Connection & Mentorship
- Hands-on learning
In-Person Courses
LEARN • CONNECT • GROW
A real-life experience led by trained facilitators.
Online Courses
ACCESS • ANYWHERE • 24/7
Guided confidence courses your daughter can do from anywhere.
- Age-specific programs
- Practical life skills
- Build confidence step by step
What we grow in every girl
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Strong Identity
Leadership
Kindness & Respect
Personal Responsibility
Healthy Self‑Image
WHY THE ONLINE COURSE WILL BENEFIT YOU & YOUR DAUGHTER
Convenient
No travelling. No traffic. Learn from anywhere. Fit it into her unique schedule. Rewind, pause, and watch again.
Save Money
Enjoy the SAME incredible value and benefits as the in-person courses — at a lower price than live sessions.
Organised: Designed with the busy parent in mind. Everything is done FOR you and made easy to navigate, simple to follow, and user-friendly (even for the non-techies!).
Strengthen Your Relationship
Watch the lessons together, continue meaningful conversations at home, and create special moments that encourage connection, trust, and emotional growth with your daughter.
Flexible Learning
With “anytime, anywhere” learning, there’s no rushing to venues or rearranging your whole schedule. Your daughter can complete the course at her own pace, in her own time.
Positive & Safe Screen Time
Feel confident knowing your daughter is engaging with inspiring, educational, age-appropriate, and FUN content that supports healthy development, confidence, strong values, and emotional wellbeing — all from the comfort and safety of your home.
MEET THE OWNER
Aletté Winckler is a speaker, mentor, entrepreneur, and confidence building expert passionate about helping girls discover their true worth, identity, and purpose. With a background in image consulting and a deep passion for inner healing and personal growth, she has dedicated her life to equipping young girls with the confidence, character, and emotional resilience they need to thrive. Through You With Confidence, Aletté is building a movement that empowers girls to embrace both their inner and outer beauty and grow into strong, kind, and purpose-driven young women.
TESTIMONIALS
WHAT THE MOTHERS HAVE TO SAY ...
Thank you so much for the incredible difference that Girl-School has made in Ane-Bell’s life. She absolutely loved it. Girl-School helped her learn more about herself, recognise her unique qualities, and develop a more positive view of who she is. One of the biggest changes I have noticed is the growth in her self-image and confidence. She also learned valuable lessons about treating others with respect and kindness, how to be a good friend, and the importance of looking at herself and others with a positive mindset. I would recommend Girl-School without hesitation. If you have a daughter who is transitioning from a girl into a young woman, Girl-School is definitely a must. The skills, values, and confidence they gain through this programme are truly invaluable.
- Anonomous
First and foremost, I want to thank our Heavenly Father for giving you the vision and passion to empower young girls, and secondly, I want to thank you for answering that call. Our biggest testimony, among many others, has been the transformation we have seen in Mikella’s heart. During Girl-School, when you teach the girls to identify the things that were not serving them and replace them with positive thoughts and truths, something powerful happened. There was one specific area that Mikella had been struggling with, and although I won’t go into detail, after that day we spoke about it, replaced the negative with something positive, and declared truth over it, we saw an immediate change. It reminded us of the power of words and the importance of speaking life, because as Job 22:28 says, “You will succeed in whatever you choose to do, and light will shine on the road ahead of you.” Thank you for creating a space where girls can discover who they are, build confidence, and learn the value of seeing themselves through a positive and empowering lens. Girl-School is truly making a difference in the hearts and lives of young girls.
- Anonomous
